SALT OF THE EARTH
Is it fair to say that the (financially) poorer people of the world possess more genuine 'humanistic' character traits than the wealthier folk do? They certainly appear to exhibit them more.
By humanistic, I mean the acknowledgement of fellow souls being present in our universe. And if this is actually true, it can explain why run-down places in London like Deptford, New Cross or seaside towns such as Margate, seem to have more 'genuine' people living there. Typically, there's less wealthy folk living there, which someway confirms my logic. I know a lot of the neighbours on my street and that's a clear sign to me that we have a community.
The Rich Don't Know Their Neighbours
Sure, these 'poorer' places are a little scruffy, but they tend to have a more 'human' feel to them as a result. There's a certain amount of vibrancy, individualism/quirkiness and non-exclusive accessibility about places that haven't got too much money. The shops can be little treasure troves of discovery, with the high streets devoid of the usual familiar brands. The majority of the restaurants tend to be non-chain, high-value establishments, making affordable hearty meals. Typically, there's a lot of Asian eateries or cafes making a selection of hearty meals, offering BYO options in these authentic family-run restaurants. Locals sit drinking tea, eating fry-ups, shepherd's pies, curries, stir-fries and enjoying authentic cuisine for less than £10 a head. People tend to greet one another in these establishments.
You can tell when you've met some genuine people. Then tend to exhibit some particular character traits that are relatively easy to identify. Acknowledging someone with a nod and a look in the eye, we can usually make an easy acquaintance, be it in a cafe, bar or out and about. There's a kind of mutual respect given - a little wary front may be put up at first perhaps, but this is easily overcome with some general politeness. There's rarely animosity in these situations. But aloofness and an air of one-upmanship - too much confidence around strangers and being overly-familiar - this can easily put someone on edge. Narcissism is one well known personality disorder observed in those with over-inflated egos. This personality type tends to be displayed in those who believe they are better than everyone else, likely developed through their attainment of financial wealth and perceived increased levels of social status.
Over-confidence and over-familiarity on a first meeting, will make most people wary but could just make it a little difficult first distinguishing between those that are out for self-gain and potentially not very genuine. Because, on first meeting someone genuine, they may seem a little 'off' or wary. This is a good sign! If there's some small chat to break the ice - that's fine. But watch how someone eyes you suspiciously when the small talk flows a little too easily. Someone who is genuine, is usually a bit reserved and seemingly critical. They aren't easily fooled by charlatans and will not suffer fools gladly. The key is to earn their respect first and then they will let you in.
You can tell when you've met some genuine people. Then tend to exhibit some particular character traits that are relatively easy to identify. Acknowledging someone with a nod and a look in the eye, we can usually make an easy acquaintance, be it in a cafe, bar or out and about. There's a kind of mutual respect given - a little wary front may be put up at first perhaps, but this is easily overcome with some general politeness. There's rarely animosity in these situations. But aloofness and an air of one-upmanship - too much confidence around strangers and being overly-familiar - this can easily put someone on edge. Narcissism is one well known personality disorder observed in those with over-inflated egos. This personality type tends to be displayed in those who believe they are better than everyone else, likely developed through their attainment of financial wealth and perceived increased levels of social status.
Over-confidence and over-familiarity on a first meeting, will make most people wary but could just make it a little difficult first distinguishing between those that are out for self-gain and potentially not very genuine. Because, on first meeting someone genuine, they may seem a little 'off' or wary. This is a good sign! If there's some small chat to break the ice - that's fine. But watch how someone eyes you suspiciously when the small talk flows a little too easily. Someone who is genuine, is usually a bit reserved and seemingly critical. They aren't easily fooled by charlatans and will not suffer fools gladly. The key is to earn their respect first and then they will let you in.
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